Some oh-so-useful and timely Wisdom from Marilyn Raffaele…
“Painful and unresolved issues between two people (often dominance/victim) will remain in cellular memory and be carried into each lifetime continuing to manifest between the same people in different roles. This type of connection between people results in the formation of energy cords.
“Energy cords are created whenever there are intense experiences of either good or bad between two people, and become a facet of one’s energy field until removed or until one of the two evolves beyond the energy that created the cords in the first place (the cord no longer has anything to attach to). The dissolving of energy cords does not remove a person from one’s life, but removes the intense and often unhealthy sense of bondage that accompanies them.
“Energy cords develop between sexual partners, frequently between a child and a parent, or with anyone with whom there has been shared intense experiences. Energy cords bind those involved to low resonating energy and should be removed, which is easily be done by energy healers, or by self through intention. ‘In the presence of my Higher Self and my Guides, I consciously choose to remove any and all energetic cords attaching me to_____.’ Visualize Light dissolving the cords which are usually attached to the solar plexus chakra, and fill in the space with soft golden Light. It is the intention, not specific words that is important.”
I often find that cords are attached to the back, often the back of the Heart Chakra as well as the Solar Plexus Chakra, as this facilitates Power-Over without our Consciousness. Parental Programming can take this form. Remember that different modalities – such as Programming and Energy like Cords – are not different media, they’re different Perspectives on the same phenomenon.
Judging any of our Emotions is counterproductive. It’s a step away from Self-Love, and it can be a big step. But we have to admit that some Emotions are more Comfortable than others, and some more Fun than others. Preference is Healing; Judgment is Toxic. Anger, for instance, can be followed by a number of Inconveniences and worse, depending on what we do with it. While we attribute primarily Fear to dwarf planet Sedna, Anger also often accompanies it.
Anger as a Self-Protection is never to be rued. In defense of Safety, it’s your best friend. An “Imaginary” pet Alligator, for instance, is very handy to keep around to gobble up disused Cords. Alligators aren’t Angry, they’re just Hungry. There’s no room for Mercy when someone has you Corded. You need Relentlessness instead, as your Guilt is an integral part of their Power-Over. You know you’re Corded when you can’t get someone out of your mind, and Mirroring (holding an Imaginary wardrobe Mirror between you, facing them), while it may work, doesn’t Hold for more than a few minutes.
The 26 April New Moon is one foot of the base of a Finger of God (Pay Attention!) pointing at Lilith (Self-Sovereignty); the other foot is Atropos, symbolizing Endings. It means Pay Attention to Ending any impediments to your Self-Sovereignty for the next several weeks.
But once we get to Safety, Review can be very powerful. A good place to start: Is there any sense in which your Anger followed Fear, especially Fear of Abandonment? Sedna’s orbit is a hundred times longer than Pluto’s orbit – it’s waaay out there! Abandonment would be a good synonym for it, and the Sedna Mythology is certainly rife with Abandonment. Anger over Abandonment causes a lot of Relationship difficulties, whether you’re “down by the banks of the Ohio” or not.
That Anger is most definitely rooted in Fear. While Action is a frequent Reaction to Anger, Vulnerability may be a more appropriate Response to Fear. Facing a Tiger immediately springs to mind (whether we’re in Watermelon Sugar or not). Our natural reaction is to Freeze, Flee, or Fight. But what if we just sat down and said “Hi.” Tigger may not be hungry.
And if we Identify with our Immortal Soul rather than our Ego, Death is nothing but a Transition, a Rebirth. As much Harm as Huperity has done to Tiggerity, offering up our Physical Vehicle to Tigger may be enormously Healing for us both. Of course we’d want to check for and Clear any Cords between us first. Tigger may be Intimidated by our Alligator.
Roselite is an Arsenate of Calcium, Cobalt, and Magnesium. Arsenic is a very Angry Element from the Perspective of our Cells. Yet because the Damage it can do is so widespread, as a Homeopathic it’s Power is equally Diverse.