“Please give us some info on that long list of aspects we have to take responsiblity for …”
and I agree completely! Lots going on! Or coming down.
If I did it all in one bite I wouldn’t be done till the events were herstory – which would be okay, since what we aim for is not Prediction, but Interpretation. But I’ll do it in pieces anyway…
First, drop the Pattern of using “Responsible For” – it sounds to much like “Blame For” (Pholus). Pholus got himself Dead because folks thought he was “Responsible For.” Instead get in the Habit of using “Responsible to” – “Blame to” doesn’t make sense, so it’ll reduce your probability of Confusing the two. Though of course, Confusion is Good, right? When you’re Conscious of it and Accepting of it, you bet (Saturn-Neptune).
If for instance you’re “Responsible For” not having enough money, you’ll waste your time trying to Anal-eyes what you did wrong to get stuck in that Dead End. Anal-eyezing isn’t really a Dead End, but the next step afterward will get you Flushed. But if you’re “Responsible to” not having enough money, you’ll Do and/or PIAVA something to Change it, then you won’t be there any more. That may seem to violate the “Wherever you go, there you are” rule, but PIAVA can do Paradoxes like that, because it’s not constrained by those narrow Dualistic Either/Or rules. It can do Both/And, easily.
Jupiter enters Libra (5am PDT 9/9). Theoretically, the string of Ego Deaths will Lighten Up now, except that Libra means that we have to Meet Other, ie, Not-Me. That can be so rife with Danger that it can Create its own kinds of Trauma.
The Bottom-Line rule is “Safety First.” Giving yourself Away is not Growth; it’s Self-Abandonment. First, do whatever you need to do to keep your Identity intact. Mirrors (imaginary wardrobe Mirror held up facing Other, whether they’re present or not) work well. Then, once you’re Safe, you can try on the ill-fitting cloth they were seeming to recommend. “I Wonder what I can Learn by trying that on.” If it doesn’t fit, don’t wear it. Our Primary assignment here is still Learning to Love our True Self, not trying to Please Other.
Rule #2 – don’t insult anyone without first Walking a mile in their shoes. That way, when you do insult them, you’re a mile away and you have their shoes.
In a few weeks Jupiter will be Initiated by Makemake (Manifestation), which should greatly Potentiate our ability to PIAVA What we Want, or even, Goddess forbid, Work at it. Just kidding, we need both PIAVA and Work – I just emphasize PIAVA to try in some small way to counteract the Culture’s overstress on Doing.
And because with a little Practice you’ll be constantly Amazed at how Powerful PIAVA can be. And I know you’re smart enough to gradually move toward 80% PIAVA and 20% Doing, in the process helping me put an end to this withering Patriarchy that’s rapidly Destroying your Planet.
Also, the Makemake-Jupiter Initiation takes place on the Supergalactic Center. Whoa. Turns out that our entire Milky-Way Galaxy, along with a bunch of other Galaxies, rotates around a Supergalaxy, and the Center of that Supergalaxy turns out to be at 2 Libra. Talk about Meeting Other! No wonder The Donald is so afraid of Aliens.
Jupiter is one of the Rays of the Big Five-Pointed Star (or “Grand Quintile”) in the Sky now. That means, whatever happens, Ask yourself, “What am I Learning here?” Pay Attention to the Answer you get. Then go back and Pay closer Attention to any and all of the egoically incorrect Answers you rejected before you got that one. This is what Growth-Expansion-Jupiter-Libra is really about.